July 29, 2010



































































Roles & Responsibilities of the Bridal Party


Financial Responsibilities: Traditional Roles



In the past the bride's family was expected to pay for the majority of the wedding costs, and many families still elect to shoulder the responsibility of providing a wedding for their daughter. However, for many couples in recent years it has come to be a shared responsibility among the bride and groom and their families.

If your families are interested in helping with expenses, what follows is an outline of the traditional division of costs.

The Bride and her family




Invitations and announcements




Bridal gown




Flowers




Photographs




Music




Reception (site and food)




Groom's ring

The Groom and his family




Bride's engagement and wedding rings




Officiant's fee or donation




Marriage license




Expenses of the honeymoon




Rehearsal dinner




Bride's bouquet and groomsmen's boutonnieres

The Honor Attendants pay for the following

Maid or Matron of honor and Bridesmaids




Apparel and all accessories




Transportation to the wedding city




Bridal shower

Best man and Groomsmen




Rental of wedding attire




Transportation to the wedding city




Bachelor dinner

Before you sit down with your families to discuss costs, be sure to have a dollar amount in mind and be ready to compromise. If your parents are willing to help pay they should have a say in the arrangements.

For more information on budgets, see Budgeting For Your Wedding: Dos And Don'ts.